Develop an attitude of gratitude, and give thanks for everything that happens to you, knowing that every step forward is a step toward achieving something bigger and better than your current situation.
-Brian Tracy

Monday, February 3, 2014

Day 34: We Just Need To Look

There are a lot of people who read this blog that may be finding it difficult to think of something to be grateful for today.  It's certainly true for me.  I'm having a hard time writing this blog today; but these are the days I need to write.  Days that are harder to think positively are the days that everyone, including myself, needs a reminder that there are always things to be grateful for.  So where to begin??

I was having a hard time figuring out what to write about today, and how to phrase it.  So as a way to clear my head and stop over-thinking I switched gears and checked Facebook.  Usually I read through people's status updates quickly and stop for a second longer on pictures of cute kids and funny videos.  Tonight I actually took a piece of paper out and started writing down what people had posted about; and whether they know it or not, almost everyone on my Facebook Wall had something to be grateful for today. I won't "out" anyone directly, but here is the list of things I noticed in the 2 minutes I was scrolling through recent posts.


  1. Football
  2. Taking time to work on yourself
  3. Making something out of nothing
  4. Vacation
  5. Blogs
  6. Saving Money
  7. Cuddling with blankets
  8. Finding someone you love who loves what you love
  9. Job
  10. TV
  11. Birthday wishes
  12. Art
  13. New Job
  14. Special messages from people we love who are no longer with us
  15. Food
  16. Roommates
  17. Commercials
  18. Music
  19. Spouses/Partners
  20. Kids: getting their 1st Valentine, doing school work, not being sick anymore, performing at school assemblies

20 different things that people posted about, probably not realizing they are all things to be truly and deeply grateful for; yes, even TV and commercials.  If something brings you happiness and positive energy, then you should be grateful for it each and every day.  Regardless of what is going on in your life, if you look hard enough there is something there; something that makes you smile no matter what, someone who knows how to make you feel special when you feel horrible.  I include myself in the idea that everyone needs to just take a minute and look at our lives.  Even in most tragedies there is a glimmer of hope; even if it doesn't feel like it right away.  We need to look harder and more deeply for that glimmer all the time.  

Tonight I am grateful that I took the time to look harder.  


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